http://www.aljazeera.com/news/africa/2012/09/201291114752935304.html
See Zuma.
Fundamental rule of BDSM theory and function:
The bottom has the ultimate control.
And the top has the freedom to do whatever they want within those parameters.
The idea is to create the sensation of lack of control on the part of
the bottom in question, while the top enjoys the sensation and position
of being on top.
But, if you're the top, you're ultimately going off what the bottom needs and what the bottom wants.
And that includes (in BDSM at least), the sensation and experience of having no control.
If you're unable or unwilling to do this kind of stuff, than you probably shouldn't be involved in it at all.
If you're going to be the top, than you've got to think about the bottom first.
Else, the relationship doesn't last too long.
And you're left with nothing at the end of the day, in spite of having had the opportunity to do everything.
I'm young.
But I'm not stupid.
And if the older generation wants to have respect from me.
They must first show themselves as being worthy of my respect.
Again, straight from the BDSM theory: the core basis of all human and non-human interactions, including the "vanilla" stuff.
I know you're not really thinking.
But just try to.
For once.
Think about it.
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